Thursday 10 December 2015

Tips Parents For Children Who Love and Frequently Asked

One of the things that sometimes make some parents, particularly women, are annoyed by the habits of children who ask about everything. Question The children do not often make the parents are not able to answer the question they made, because the question of children is usually a complicated question. But such feelings are not only felt by the parents, feeling like it was too often annoy their teachers at school.

Thorny questions posed by children is one way children process and to find out and ask for an explanation of what happened and what is in their brains. According to the book, the habit of such a child would reach peak when children aged 4-7 years and this period is often referred to as "full-time question"
The questions posed children do not always relate to the problems of simple, but also complicated problems, eg ask why the color of our skin like this? Why if the water is cooked to mature? Why fire is hot? What kind of image of God? Why did God create me into a man, or vice versa?

Then how answers parents when their children ask quaint like that? Do you answer their questions or send your children to be quiet and not a lot to ask again?

Parents are supposed to be able to give the right answers and honest. Answer not too long so that children become bored and Answer should not be too short so it does not satisfy their curiosity.
Unfortunately there are still many parents who are not able to answer some of the questions posed by children, then as parents we should be looking for a solution to the question of children for example by asking others or find out through the media. It also should never judge negatively about the habits of such a child asks, because there are many parents today who consider children the habit of asking questions like that is a negative habit. In fact, such children are considered cranky and depraved. This annoyance can sometimes make parents were silent or lie to their children. Even sometimes found also parents who scold their children to be quiet, as if he considered his son created just to be seen, not heard. Do you also vote that way?

In this context, parents should be wise in satisfying curiosity and curiosity that children under the guidance of their parents. This is where the parents are required to give satisfactory answers to all the questions it proposes to use a style that is appropriate to the ability level of reason. The correct answer and the right very beneficial for children because the correct answer and the venue will stimulate children to further soul knows everything and also foster self-confidence of children.