"Help me afraid to go there because the place is dark
Help the cat, I do not dare to pass there
Mother, I want to drink but fear near where drinking is no fruit "
Have you ever heard those words or other words that show your child's fear on something? Perhaps you as parents or families with small children sometimes will find statements such as on top of a small child. Why be like and what would we do if we find things like that? Do you even frighten him?
See the summary description above, on this occasion the author will try to give a little review article posts about fear in children and hopefully this post can be useful for you.
Instinctively, a child will always depend on the parents, especially the mother because the figure of the closest child is a mother who probably every day to communicate and more meet and interact with their children. So when a mother scaring her child, the child would run from her mother instinctively when a child needs a mother. In situations like these children are in a dilemma situation (one hand it avoids the mother whereas the one hand he needs her mother while her mother scare him). Circumstances like these that can actually lead to the emergence of seeds split personality in children and raises contradictory tendencies in the child. Multiple personality like this could ultimately affect the weakening of cognitive ability and concentration of children.
Look at the effect of the treatment due to the parents of children, as described above, the parents should be positive in dealing with fear in children. Parents must provide understanding and skills to eliminate his fear.
Some steps that may be made by parents is to explain and introduce objects that are considered foreigners (who make fear) in children, and then connect the sources cause fear with something fun. For example if a child is afraid of cats, parents can help cope with small cats. After that get children to feed, keep it, protect it, play with it, and watched its growth.
In addition to the steps mentioned above then the parent should reassure the child that fear is an illusion. A child who is afraid of the dark, the parents have to remove the shadow of ghosts and demons in a dark place in a scientific way and simple.
Thus my post this time the fear in children, hopefully this article can help parents to overcome the fear of the child so that the child's fears fade away.
